I don’t know if I always deliberately push other people away. I don’t ever spend time with either of my roommates, or really make an effort to, so I understand why I’m not included in anything they ever do… but it still sucks… or is that we are just different people? I think that is the main reason. We’re complete opposites! I mean, they’ve never failed to help me when I was in need and I’ve always helped when they needed me. We’re good as roommates and we respect each other’s space. The main reason we roomed together is because we all moved from the same town to a different town, but we all want to feel a part of this new college community and meet new people… but we really haven’t as much as we’d like to. Anyway, I’m thinking about rooming elsewhere next semester. With people I have things in common with, hopefully. I’m just scared since it will be a random selection and there is no telling who I might end up with. I already HAVE good roommates who I can trust, but… should I risk moving out to meet new friends and feel a part of something I belong in??? Or should I go about it a different way like finding a job here or joining a school organization? Any type of advice would help… thank you! <333